these past couple of days I have been going about several debates online, reading about freedom of speach and moral consideration for other human being, finding that there are too many people out there in the world who seems to belive that freedom of speach is NOT in fact affected by, nore should it be affected by consideration of others feelings. OK, I will give you that much; according to law, this is correct. BUT I really must disagree, never the less.
what ever happend to human rights? love thy next?
I am not saying you should not speak your oppinions, or meanings, but there are other things to consider when you talk.
personally, I do not care if someone comments a picture of me, telling me i am hidious, or that i am a poser, or whatever they might say. what bothers me is that these people have absolutely NO respect, what so ever, for other human beings, and it is in fact very disturbing.
there is a BIG difference between speaking your oppinion, and being a total jack**s about it.
here is an example for you: say you stumble in to a profile that belongs to a 14 year old girl. you see alot of pictures of her, she seems very confident, and more than willing to show this to the rest of us. you, on the other hand, find her unattractive. now you have got two choices; number 1) you tell her, white lies aside, that she is b*ttugly, and that she should remove her pictures, in order to spare the eyes of other people. or number 2) you could just simply Click your way out from her profile, and spend no more time on her.
It is not that hard!
I am sure there are others who would disagree with you, and find her attractive.
Buth, sadly, there seems to be alot of people who thinks that others feeling does not matter.
If they are confronted about it, they defend themselves with, what do you know, freedom of speach, and that it is not their fault people do not have an x amount of selfirony in them.
i find this very ridiculous. this does not justify immoral behavier.
** this post is not ment to offend anyone. I am simply speaking my oppinion **
In other news!
alot has happend since my last post. ( I must apologize to my few, but loyal readers, about my absence, do to lack of internetpossibilities. )
My beautiful babygirl has grown, and gotten so big! and she is very close to walking on her own, she tries her very best to speak words, and she has gotten very fond of cuddling, to her mommas big joy!
and upcomming monday, is her first day in kindergarten. we are very excited! her birthday is comming up, just around the corner. the 21st of september she celebrates her very first birthday, 1 year old! times goes by so fast. seems like just yesterday i was craddling her in my arms. and now she barely has time to grant her momma a look, since there is so much to do, and so much to learn. i can not help but to smile.
on the other hand, I just sent of the contract to my school for the next 3 years. online that is.
on this year's plan; history and norwegian. I cannot wait!
finally i will have something else to do, besides chores and diaperchanging!
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Whenever life gets difficult, I try to take a step back, to see clearly. It is not always
that easy, to block out irritation and anger, or sadness and frustration. but if you try hard enough, you will get there. and when you do; everything is so much easier to see, to handle.
I find myself in a situation interrupted by just those feelings, one after the other.
when I find that my patience is running low, or that my energy is abscent, i need to
step back, not just for me, but for my daughter, to regain focuse. because everything that goes through me, passes on to her, and that is something that can be both great, and not so great.
just take a deep breath, and focuse.
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what ever happend to human rights? love thy next?
I am not saying you should not speak your oppinions, or meanings, but there are other things to consider when you talk.
personally, I do not care if someone comments a picture of me, telling me i am hidious, or that i am a poser, or whatever they might say. what bothers me is that these people have absolutely NO respect, what so ever, for other human beings, and it is in fact very disturbing.
there is a BIG difference between speaking your oppinion, and being a total jack**s about it.
here is an example for you: say you stumble in to a profile that belongs to a 14 year old girl. you see alot of pictures of her, she seems very confident, and more than willing to show this to the rest of us. you, on the other hand, find her unattractive. now you have got two choices; number 1) you tell her, white lies aside, that she is b*ttugly, and that she should remove her pictures, in order to spare the eyes of other people. or number 2) you could just simply Click your way out from her profile, and spend no more time on her.
It is not that hard!
I am sure there are others who would disagree with you, and find her attractive.
Buth, sadly, there seems to be alot of people who thinks that others feeling does not matter.
If they are confronted about it, they defend themselves with, what do you know, freedom of speach, and that it is not their fault people do not have an x amount of selfirony in them.
i find this very ridiculous. this does not justify immoral behavier.
** this post is not ment to offend anyone. I am simply speaking my oppinion **
In other news!
alot has happend since my last post. ( I must apologize to my few, but loyal readers, about my absence, do to lack of internetpossibilities. )
My beautiful babygirl has grown, and gotten so big! and she is very close to walking on her own, she tries her very best to speak words, and she has gotten very fond of cuddling, to her mommas big joy!
and upcomming monday, is her first day in kindergarten. we are very excited! her birthday is comming up, just around the corner. the 21st of september she celebrates her very first birthday, 1 year old! times goes by so fast. seems like just yesterday i was craddling her in my arms. and now she barely has time to grant her momma a look, since there is so much to do, and so much to learn. i can not help but to smile.
on the other hand, I just sent of the contract to my school for the next 3 years. online that is.
on this year's plan; history and norwegian. I cannot wait!
finally i will have something else to do, besides chores and diaperchanging!
--------------------------
Whenever life gets difficult, I try to take a step back, to see clearly. It is not always
that easy, to block out irritation and anger, or sadness and frustration. but if you try hard enough, you will get there. and when you do; everything is so much easier to see, to handle.
I find myself in a situation interrupted by just those feelings, one after the other.
when I find that my patience is running low, or that my energy is abscent, i need to
step back, not just for me, but for my daughter, to regain focuse. because everything that goes through me, passes on to her, and that is something that can be both great, and not so great.
just take a deep breath, and focuse.
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summary:
-thoughts out in the open (check)
-daily life (check)
-advice (check)
i guess thats all for this time. I do not have time to write anymore at this point, but i am sure to be back here soon enough!
farewell!
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